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Post by Danno on Sept 4, 2024 15:40:24 GMT
Danno How are you doing big chief Not ideal. Spoke to my boss while having a panic attack and I'm not up for a sacking on Friday, but I can't face work until then. Then spoke to the doc and upped my meds. This fucking thing man :/ It's cost me everything almost three times over now and I'm sick of me |
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Post by LegendaryApe on Sept 4, 2024 16:22:02 GMT
I wish I knew magic words to help you Danno. I hope things get better cos you're a great dude
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Post by Danno on Sept 4, 2024 16:26:58 GMT
Nah I'm bum, but thank you
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Post by LegendaryApe on Sept 4, 2024 16:33:17 GMT
Nah I'm bum, but thank you I'd say every person on here will disagree with you Danno. You've certainly improved my life by being on here, as I often don't feel very good about things, but I feel a bit better reading your posts. |
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Post by Danno on Sept 4, 2024 16:40:15 GMT
Nah I'm bum, but thank you I'd say every person on here will disagree with you Danno. You've certainly improved my life by being on here, as I often don't feel very good about things, but I feel a bit better reading your posts. Shut up you fucking idiot 😘 |
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Post by Danno on Sept 4, 2024 16:41:51 GMT
All my posts are rancid nonsense so 🤫
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Post by LegendaryApe on Sept 4, 2024 16:45:11 GMT
I'd say every person on here will disagree with you Danno. You've certainly improved my life by being on here, as I often don't feel very good about things, but I feel a bit better reading your posts. Shut up you fucking idiot 😘 I may be an idiot, but as you may know I'm certainly not fucking these days. |
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Post by LegendaryApe on Sept 4, 2024 16:46:37 GMT
All my posts are rancid nonsense so 🤫 Have you read my posts?! There are kids who've gotten laser eye surgery, and if the first thing they read was one of my posts, they'd request blindness again |
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Post by Deleted on Sept 4, 2024 17:00:32 GMT
I always feel bad posting here, as it's always about myself. I never contribute because I find the thread triggering. Had a really dark moment last night. Crossed the line from 'what's the point lololol' to 'no, seriously, what is the point'. Pulled myself back pretty quickly, but I'm still scared now. Hope everyone is going okay. Just a quick reach out to say I feel this way about this thread sometimes, and it takes a LOT for me to go into the Big C thread, to my shame. I have also frequently felt that my occasional wobbles aren’t worthy or serious enough, and have actually been told off for that, so that’s that too. If you aren’t feeling strong yourself you needn’t feel like people need to lean on you, and I doubt anybody has ever had thoughts about that anyway. Just admitting you have felt that and shared it might well help people reading feel less alone so even if you are having the shittest of times there is always a point to you being here. So stick around please chief and do consider speaking to a professional. |
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Post by Deleted on Sept 4, 2024 17:06:49 GMT
Danno you’ve personally reached out to me before, your posts are usually highly entertaining and just bring low level improvement to our day when we read them, I’d say you’d be in many people’s top posters if there was ever a popularity poll. Don’t be embarrassed when folk tell you they think you’re cool man!
Sounds like this week is something to be endured, which is shit. Good luck mate. All I have to contribute there sorry.
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Post by addyb on Sept 4, 2024 18:43:31 GMT
All my posts are rancid nonsense so 🤫 Mate, your posts and general sexiness are off the charts. You reached out to me when I was at a low ebb, I'd like to return the favour. It is hard work giving advice when you're feeling low yourself. You, me, we....we got this! Now who wants a hug? |
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Post by Danno on Sept 4, 2024 19:44:46 GMT
You bastards
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Post by harrypalmer on Sept 4, 2024 20:10:01 GMT
All I can do is echo what others have said. The way you feel now is nothing to do with who you are as a person. You’re unwell. You’ve been hugely supportive and kind to people here and everyone thinks you’re great! I hope you start to feel better soon.
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Post by wunty on Sept 4, 2024 21:17:31 GMT
Hang in there danno. I recognise the feeling like shit thing. You have more value here than you would ever know. This is a good space man. We’ve got you chief.
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Post by Danno on Sept 4, 2024 21:38:51 GMT
Thank you guys
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Post by jono62 on Sept 4, 2024 21:45:33 GMT
All my posts are rancid nonsense so 🤫 Mate, your posts and general sexiness are off the charts. You reached out to me when I was at a low ebb, I'd like to return the favour. It is hard work giving advice when you're feeling low yourself. You, me, we....we got this! Now who wants a hug? I want a reacharound |
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Post by minimatt on Sept 4, 2024 21:51:04 GMT
sign me up for the danno hug club
don't worry about that lump, it's just my phone in my pocket
i said don't worry about it
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Post by Danno on Sept 4, 2024 21:54:10 GMT
Mate, your posts and general sexiness are off the charts. You reached out to me when I was at a low ebb, I'd like to return the favour. It is hard work giving advice when you're feeling low yourself. You, me, we....we got this! Now who wants a hug? I want a reacharound Any fucking time day or night, I've got you guys |
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Post by Danno on Sept 4, 2024 21:56:10 GMT
sign me up for the danno hug club don't worry about that lump, it's just my phone in my pocket i said don't worry about it Hey stop that Thanks though |
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Post by skalpadda on Sept 4, 2024 22:54:25 GMT
Danno I have nothing erudite to say, but from everything I've seen you're a good'un. Even in this thread alone you've been a positive presence. So add an E-hug to the pile, and I hope you'll feel better soon. Depression and anxiety can be beaten, or at least beaten back.
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Post by LegendaryApe on Sept 5, 2024 6:08:52 GMT
I also hug Danno, and hope he doesn't get the wrong idea when he feels my moist breath on his neck
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Post by Jambowayoh on Sept 5, 2024 14:42:15 GMT
Not too proud of myself here but I had a moment of suicidal ideation today on my way to meet a friend for lunch. Feeling severley down since my interview a couple of days ago that I don't think went that well and I had a thought in my head and...it kept going and I was thinking it through how it would make things easier for myself. I guess I have put myself under a lot of undue pressure making this one job a make or break thing for staying in England. I told my mate at least though about the whole thing which I guess helps for a bit.
I guess I'm just rambling now but I hope everyone is staying strong and talking to someone. Anyone.
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Post by quadfather on Sept 5, 2024 15:11:21 GMT
Not too proud of myself here but I had a moment of suicidal ideation today on my way to meet a friend for lunch. Feeling severley down since my interview a couple of days ago that I don't think went that well and I had a thought in my head and...it kept going and I was thinking it through how it would make things easier for myself. I guess I have put myself under a lot of undue pressure making this one job a make or break thing for staying in England. I told my mate at least though about the whole thing which I guess helps for a bit. I guess I'm just rambling now but I hope everyone is staying strong and talking to someone. Anyone. At the end of the day, it's just a job. It's not as important as a lot of things. It sounds like it's the staying in England pressure thats to blame I'd say? |
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Post by Jambowayoh on Sept 5, 2024 15:22:37 GMT
It's a lot of things wrapped all together I guess. A lot of things that you think you put away for good but takes little just to uncover them again.
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Post by zisssou on Sept 5, 2024 15:39:23 GMT
Yeah, I can relate to that. I'm in the process of bereavement counselling and that's been brought up a few times. I think we have a tendency to make more of things than they actually are, but its a hard mindset to break. I know for me my confidence is pretty shot, but the only way to get out of it is to try and build it up again, don't be too hard on myself, don't get stressed about it.. not an easy thing to do.
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Post by quadfather on Sept 5, 2024 16:20:01 GMT
Yeah, I can relate to that. I'm in the process of bereavement counselling and that's been brought up a few times. I think we have a tendency to make more of things than they actually are, but its a hard mindset to break. I know for me my confidence is pretty shot, but the only way to get out of it is to try and build it up again, don't be too hard on myself, don't get stressed about it.. not an easy thing to do. That's the exact same approach I use for bereavement too. The good news is that when you rebuild your confidence this time round, I find it's even more solid than it was before. |
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Post by addyb on Sept 5, 2024 16:24:24 GMT
It's several things I'm lacking at the moment. Self worth, confidence and I'm overthinking things too much. It was an extremely heavy session at AMC on Monday and I came away from it quite distraught and broke down Infront of my wife telling her I don't know how to 'fix' myself.
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Post by quadfather on Sept 5, 2024 17:45:33 GMT
It's several things I'm lacking at the moment. Self worth, confidence and I'm overthinking things too much. It was an extremely heavy session at AMC on Monday and I came away from it quite distraught and broke down Infront of my wife telling her I don't know how to 'fix' myself. Is there anything to actually fix? |
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Post by addyb on Sept 5, 2024 17:54:55 GMT
That's the question I guess that keeps swirling round.
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Post by Jambowayoh on Sept 5, 2024 18:00:18 GMT
I think everyone's a little broken, kinda what makes us human really. Addy, you're no more broken than the rest of us. You don't need fixing but you do need some compassion for yourself.
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