Lizard
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Post by Lizard on Oct 15, 2022 23:01:16 GMT
Did she wink while she wanked? No, that's MY move.
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dogbot
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Post by dogbot on Oct 16, 2022 6:56:22 GMT
I married the girl who gave me edibles.
Just saying.
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Tomo
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Post by Tomo on Oct 16, 2022 7:39:27 GMT
What's an edible
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cubby
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doesn't get subtext
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Post by cubby on Oct 16, 2022 7:58:28 GMT
Food.
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Post by dfunked on Oct 16, 2022 8:02:21 GMT
Panties
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Post by LegendaryApe on Oct 16, 2022 8:08:38 GMT
Mini babybels
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dogbot
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Post by dogbot on Oct 16, 2022 10:23:45 GMT
They're what makes mayonnaise an instrument.
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Post by quadfather on Oct 16, 2022 12:52:53 GMT
Does anyone here speak English
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Post by puddleduck on Oct 16, 2022 12:58:34 GMT
Does anyone here speak English That's your chat up line isn't it?
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Post by quadfather on Oct 16, 2022 13:12:46 GMT
Got your attention, didn't it
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Post by LegendaryApe on Oct 16, 2022 13:20:36 GMT
I'm moister than a Tesco cabbage right now
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Post by Danno on Oct 16, 2022 14:17:56 GMT
I'm moister than a Tesco cabbage right now But can you outlast a lettuce
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Post by LegendaryApe on Oct 16, 2022 15:38:14 GMT
Lettuce see...
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Post by Trowel 🏴 on Oct 16, 2022 16:16:35 GMT
🎵 Speaking words of wisdom... 🎵
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Post by Dougs on Oct 16, 2022 21:11:16 GMT
Does anyone here speak English Marcus Brody eat your heart out.
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LFace
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Post by LFace on Oct 20, 2022 6:57:19 GMT
What's people's opinion on calling it quits with someone after a few months by a heart felt message rather than in person? I've been seeing someone for 5 months but in last few weeks the spark has fizzled and when I'm with her it just feels like I'm having a catch-up with a mate. No intimacy for a while.
She is meant to come to mine tonight and offered to pay for a meal out at my local but I don't want her driving all this way and paying when I'm ready to call it quits. So is it less of a prick move to call it quits this morning over a message?
Nothing against her, she's a nice gal, always pleasant etc. Just nothing there romantically anymore.
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Post by freddiemercurystwin on Oct 20, 2022 7:01:49 GMT
Well what would you think if she did that to you? Not judging just saying. How about a ye oldie phone call?
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LFace
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Post by LFace on Oct 20, 2022 7:07:51 GMT
It's happened to me several times and I know it's shit. If there was no plans tonight to come here I would do it in person but if I tell her not to come then she'll know something is up and it'll end up being messages anyway.
Phone call is an option but unsure if that's as bad as a text as it's still not face to face so to speak.
Had next to no sleep from anxiety about it. I'm normally on the receiving end, haven't been the deliverer for a very long time.
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Post by Dougs on Oct 20, 2022 7:21:21 GMT
I think better to just get it over with tbh. There's no good way to do it but at least this way she's not driving over and then having to drive back disappointed. Maybe a "can we talk" message and then do it over the phone. Or do whatever most do and make excuses why you can't see her until she gets the message.
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Post by freddiemercurystwin on Oct 20, 2022 7:23:27 GMT
Or do whatever most do and make excuses why you can't see her until she gets the message. Oof the old faithful!
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LFace
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Post by LFace on Oct 20, 2022 7:27:08 GMT
Yeah I'm not gonna ghost haha. Maybe the "can we chat" phone call is best option. I feel a right prick doing this to her but life is short and all that.
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Tomo
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Post by Tomo on Oct 20, 2022 7:32:20 GMT
She is meant to come to mine tonight and offered to pay for a meal Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen.
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Post by rockavitch on Oct 20, 2022 7:43:41 GMT
If there's no way to meet her before tonight then a phone call is best. Be sure to mention you'd have rather done it in person but didn't want her coming all this way just to hear the news and that a message seemed real shitty. Just be honest with her and only really elaborate on what she asks. If she's a decent person like you say then apologise too, even though you've nothing to apologise for but it's a nice gesture.
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Post by Honk If You're Horny? on Oct 20, 2022 7:46:32 GMT
Send a telegram.
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Post by Dougs on Oct 20, 2022 8:10:00 GMT
If there's no way to meet her before tonight then a phone call is best. Be sure to mention you'd have rather done it in person but didn't want her coming all this way just to hear the news and that a message seemed real shitty. Just be honest with her and only really elaborate on what she asks. If she's a decent person like you say then apologise too, even though you've nothing to apologise for but it's a nice gesture. Exactly this.
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LFace
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Post by LFace on Oct 20, 2022 9:19:36 GMT
As Frodo said, it's over it's done. Christ that was a difficult call. Struggled to get the words out without voice cracking. She was ok and felt a little same way herself so least it wasn't entirely one sided.
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dogbot
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Post by dogbot on Oct 20, 2022 9:21:28 GMT
Sorry to hear that LFace, but it sounds like it's better now than later and at imo, on the phone is much better and more respectful than a message. Onwards and upwards!
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Lizard
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Post by Lizard on Oct 20, 2022 9:22:48 GMT
Bottle it up, push it down, get the free meal and soldier on into an unhappy marriage would be my advice.
EDIT: Ahh, missed some posts. Sorry LFace.
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Post by bichii on Oct 20, 2022 9:34:58 GMT
Sorry about that lface but at least it was just a fizzle out and nothing horrible..
I don't mind the text thing as much as most people because with a text, if it's thought out, can perhaps convey the reasons better than a phone call where it gets all awkward and maybe things don't come out how they were planned and things get forgotten that were meant to be said.
Edit. Like once I tried to dump someone face to face about four years ago and he ended up convincing me not to. Which was pointless as I did actually dump him about one month later as nothing had changed and I still felt the same way.
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Ulythium
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Post by Ulythium on Oct 20, 2022 9:35:19 GMT
Sorry to hear that, LFace , but it sounds as though you did the right thing (despite it also being the difficult thing). Kudos aplenty.
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