rhaegyr
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Post by rhaegyr on Apr 15, 2024 15:22:10 GMT
Just to add to the cringe here - I definitely feel like I'm falling for my fiancee a little bit more as we get closer to our wedding (which is roughly a year away).
Anyone else get this feeling before getting married? I half expected cold feet, not this.
/barf
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Post by RumMonkey on Apr 15, 2024 15:31:25 GMT
Saying you love your partner isn't cringe, it's how you say it makes it cringe. Puddleduck has it down to a fine art.
The build up is amazing, then the actual wedding day is the best day ever and then you're on a buzz after for ages. Was our 7th anniversary last week and we still have that buzz.
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Post by cubby on Apr 15, 2024 15:46:14 GMT
Having feelings is pretty cringe bruh
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Post by Dougs on Apr 15, 2024 16:19:55 GMT
No urge to scratch that itch Rum?
(Pretty sure that was when people were marrying straight out of school and getting to mid-twenties and going - is this it?).
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Post by jeepers on Apr 15, 2024 16:23:19 GMT
Having feelings is pretty cringe bruh Lecturing people in the style of a Marie Clare agony aunt on how they should express their emotions is enormously cringe brah. As is attributing that which you know absolutely fuck all to some imagined previous trauma. You ‘ve met someone you like? Great! Have fun! Best wishes and all. But leave the smug sanctimony at home plz. I don’t want to be lectured by someone whose entire belief system is based on Hallmark greetings cards and half-remembered Alain de Botton books.
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cubby
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Post by cubby on Apr 15, 2024 17:02:43 GMT
Is there some sort of script that gets passed around or something?
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Post by Jambowayoh on Apr 15, 2024 17:28:30 GMT
Oh dear, user Puddleduck's relationship advice here going down like the proverbial fart in a lift.
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Post by mcgeeza on Apr 15, 2024 17:29:18 GMT
I'll add to the cringe. Met my missus on the checkouts at Somerfields. Married at 21. Happily married for 28 years and counting. 3 beautiful kids (now adults). I don't moan when she buys shoes (WTF is that all about - eh lads?). She doesn't moan when I buy video games. Plus the odd argument over the washing up.
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Post by askew on Apr 15, 2024 17:31:18 GMT
Oh dear, user Puddleduck's relationship advice here going down like the proverbial fart in a lift. *Parp…*
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Post by puddleduck on Apr 15, 2024 18:04:08 GMT
Having feelings is pretty cringe bruh Lecturing people in the style of a Marie Clare agony aunt on how they should express their emotions is enormously cringe brah. As is attributing that which you know absolutely fuck all to some imagined previous trauma. You ‘ve met someone you like? Great! Have fun! Best wishes and all. But leave the smug sanctimony at home plz. I don’t want to be lectured by someone whose entire belief system is based on Hallmark greetings cards and half-remembered Alain de Botton books. Fair point, in my limited defence, it was mostly driven by responses to people's negativity 😉
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Post by Tomo on Apr 15, 2024 18:59:24 GMT
Yeah exactly, you guys can't draw the answers out of him and then throw your toys out of the pram when he gives you the material.
It's probably why the guy who hid behind the rose bushes left and how sad was this thread after that.
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Post by Tomo on Apr 15, 2024 19:05:00 GMT
Fwiw, I actually think there's sense in what duck is saying anyway. You can't flame the the guy for his posting style when he's simultaneously typing one-handed and engaged in out of this world tantric sex, Sting and Trudie style.
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Post by salaman on Apr 15, 2024 21:27:13 GMT
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