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Post by cubby on Apr 4, 2024 21:32:36 GMT
Why don't people just get more money?
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Post by richardiox on Apr 4, 2024 21:45:11 GMT
Yeah there's a real Tory type vibe behind the reasoning.
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Post by zagibu on Apr 4, 2024 22:47:30 GMT
You seem to be completely unaware of how the majority of people live, or the cost of things vs wages. Saving is an obvious thing to do, the ability to do that is really fucking hard for most and not because of anything they’ve done wrong. Why? Because I think people are overdramatizing the threat of job loss? Also, it's certainly because of something that "they" have done, or rather not done, although it is not in every case them personally. Wage workers make up well over 90% of the population, but not even a third of them are unionized or have ever been to a demonstration. They let themselves be squeezed harder and harder every year and all they do is complain to each other about it. Then when you point it out they say they are too tired from work to care about such things. But it's actually the other way around. Fucking hell it was a casual turn of phrase that you've really latched onto. Let it go man! Just stop quoting me if you don't want a response from me.
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Post by askew on Apr 4, 2024 22:52:52 GMT
Good solidarity with your fellow workers, whether they be in a union or not.
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Post by Psiloc on Apr 5, 2024 0:03:51 GMT
I was just explaining why I decided to start saving some money dude
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Post by richardiox on Apr 5, 2024 0:06:33 GMT
I still can't grasp how you actually think it's your call as to whether or not someone else should feel anxious about their own financial circumstances - especially when you know fuck all about said individual(s).
You've already said you don't have kids. Not everyone has the choice whether to be a "wage worker". Not everyone has the income to save 10% of their salary and it doesn't mean they spend beyond their means.
Having kids for example is fucking expensive if both parents work. I've just spent five years with a monthly childcare bill that was 1.2X my mortgage - two kids at nursery full time. That's not factoring in food, clothes, holidays etc. Now they're at school it's still costing us £500/month as the school day is so out of sync with the working day.
Speaking of mortgages, property prices are ridiculously inflated in most of the UK so if you actually want to own your own property that factors in. High inflation with massively increase in fuel, insurance premiums etc.
And I'm saying this with household income that is pretty ok.
It's fucking baffling how you don't live in the UK, or have kids (or any horse in someone else's race) yet here you are *in this thread of all places* condescendingly lecturing people on their own household finances.
Some people have caring responsibilities, disabilities, relatively shitty paid jobs like nurses and teachers.
It's probably fair to say that most people have no realistic chance of being able to make investments to the scale that would yield anything meaningful. Do some basic research on average UK salary, childcare costs, housing costs and (checks thread title). Then factor in your notion of 10% savings let alone investments.
Getting bizarre joy that you are doubling down on your take. I'm imagining this discussion playing out "irl" at a dinner party and the look of sheer abject horror on your girlfriends* face as you "No, but" your way through everyone's literal lived experience and chastising the other couples for their lack of saving/investing prowess.
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Post by mikeck on Apr 5, 2024 0:10:31 GMT
[quote author=" zagibu"[/quote]Really? You live so much on the edge that you couldn't do anything to lower your costs? Also, you only have to bridge the gap to your next job, not live years on your savings. There is always a low paying job opening somewhere that helps you stretch that amount way longer, especially if you also lower your expenses. It's not rocket science. [/quote] You're like a non-empathetic Martin Lewis, without the knowledge, helpful advice or usefulness.
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Post by dmukgr on Apr 5, 2024 5:26:46 GMT
If you forget all the hyperbole there is a useful theme here coming out of both sides - the majority of people are just scraping by and if we assume the general population will always be at least OK, then we shouldn’t worry too hard about hitting rock bottom as it’s highly unlikely and something will come up.
Of course, our stupid brains then say we will be that million to one exception.
Quaddy took a brave leap and thankfully it looks like it’s worked, but by his own admission it was a last minute change in fortunes, and when you have kids that sort of risk taking isn’t possible if your a responsible parent - so we all have sleepless nights, more so as we imagine everyone else is winning and we are uniquely winging it badly.
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Post by zagibu on Apr 5, 2024 8:26:16 GMT
I still can't grasp how you actually think it's your call as to whether or not someone else should feel anxious about their own financial circumstances It is their right to feel anxious about it, and it's their right to overdramatize it in a public forum, but it is also my right to find that ridiculous.
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Post by dfunked on Apr 5, 2024 8:29:02 GMT
Only one person is being ridiculous here.
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Post by mcmonkeyplc on Apr 5, 2024 8:42:58 GMT
I'm pretty sure we were talking about understanding the variety of peoples personal situations in this very thread about a week ago.
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Post by Reviewer on Apr 5, 2024 8:43:10 GMT
There’s a very large proportion of people in the country that if they lost their job then they’d be fucked almost instantly. It’s literally impossible for some to save money because of what they earn vs the cost of things.
If you think people being anxious about it is ridiculous then you are seriously lacking empathy or understanding of anything to do with society.
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Post by sport✅ on Apr 5, 2024 8:49:24 GMT
There’s a very large proportion of people in the country that if they lost their job then they’d be fucked almost instantly. It’s literally impossible for some to save money because of what they earn vs the cost of things. If you think people being anxious about it is ridiculous then you are seriously lacking empathy or understanding of anything to do with society. Look, it's not my fault those people didn't start growing their portfolios after their GCSEs.
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Post by richardiox on Apr 5, 2024 9:06:05 GMT
I still can't grasp how you actually think it's your call as to whether or not someone else should feel anxious about their own financial circumstances It is their right to feel anxious about it, and it's their right to overdramatize it in a public forum, but it is also my right to find that ridiculous.
It is your right to find it ridiculous but it's a whole other thing to find the need to belittle the other person's and invalidate their actual lived experience. What seems ridiculous to you from your personal perspective may not be the same for someone else. We've already established you don't have kids or live in the UK so you can't do like-for-like statements without sounding like a cunt You can't say overdramatise if you're not the person affected. It's nothing to do with you how 'dramatic' anything is to any given individual. And in this case, worrying about not being able to pay your mortgage and/or relocate your family isn't being overdramatic. Neither of those situations are casual for many people. "I've lost my job, my house is getting repossessed, I have to move my family to find work which means my autistic son has to change schools which in turn will create huge anguish for him and we'll be 100s miles away from our family support network"..... "Stop being overdramatic, losing your job was your fault and I can't believe you haven't even invested in a Scandinavian ISA" says the man with no kids, no insight, no frame of reference and no fucking empathy.
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Post by kingbambino on Apr 5, 2024 9:08:02 GMT
I still can't grasp how you actually think it's your call as to whether or not someone else should feel anxious about their own financial circumstances It is their right to feel anxious about it, and it's their right to overdramatize it in a public forum, but it is also my right to find that ridiculous.
Sorry who let this narcissistic knob in? Has Boris Johnson got too much time on his hands
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Post by Gruf on Apr 5, 2024 9:35:19 GMT
I still can't grasp how you actually think it's your call as to whether or not someone else should feel anxious about their own financial circumstances It is their right to feel anxious about it, and it's their right to overdramatize it in a public forum, but it is also my right to find that ridiculous.
Oh dear, keep digging your personal cesspit
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Post by richardiox on Apr 5, 2024 9:53:09 GMT
Some real cryptobro energy.
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Post by technoish on Apr 5, 2024 10:07:00 GMT
I miss the crypto thread.
On topic, a reminder that today is the last day before ISA allowances reset, so is a good time if able, to top up savings (although I recognize that with the standard interest tax allowance, and the 20k annual ISA limit for vast majority of people the reset isn't really all that impactful). We use my allowance for both of us as my wife is a US citizen so pays stupid taxes anyway.
I started saving into a Vanguard stocks and shares ISA last year, but have just opened my first deposit ISA. I picked Chip - as it is currently offering 5% - although it just tracks the BoE base rate.
Also, thanks to the person who noted my major error on pension saving benefits, as I am looking at adding to my workplace DB pension, given the tax relief!
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Post by nexus6 on Apr 5, 2024 10:11:47 GMT
I miss the crypto thread. On topic, a reminder that today is the last day before ISA allowances reset, so is a good time if able, to top up savings (although I recognize that with the standard interest tax allowance, and the 20k annual ISA limit for vast majority of people the reset isn't really all that impactful). We use my allowance for both of us as my wife is a US citizen so pays stupid taxes anyway. I started saving into a Vanguard stocks and shares ISA last year, but have just opened my first deposit ISA. I picked Chip - as it is currently offering 5% - although it just tracks the BoE base rate. Also, thanks to the person who noted my major error on pension saving benefits, as I am looking at adding to my workplace DB pension, given the tax relief! Been stressing about that this week and last. Not had a chance to add to my existing S+S ISA this last few years and to be honest, it's not performed well at all. We have savings accounts for each of the kids as well and not added to them much. I have written off putting anything in this year, 23/24 as I would rather research the alternatives and start fresh 24/25. That's what I tell myself anyway. bloody kids nearly have as much money as me!
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Post by askew on Apr 5, 2024 10:13:59 GMT
Yeah, Chip’s ISA is at 5.10% right now, and also offering an easy access saver at 4.84%. Zopa was 5.08%.
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Post by zagibu on Apr 5, 2024 10:23:59 GMT
It is your right to find it ridiculous but it's a whole other thing to find the need to belittle the other person's and invalidate their actual lived experience. What seems ridiculous to you from your personal perspective may not be the same for someone else. We've already established you don't have kids or live in the UK so you can't do like-for-like statements without sounding like a cunt You can't say overdramatise if you're not the person affected. It's nothing to do with you how 'dramatic' anything is to any given individual. And in this case, worrying about not being able to pay your mortgage and/or relocate your family isn't being overdramatic. Neither of those situations are casual for many people. "I've lost my job, my house is getting repossessed, I have to move my family to find work which means my autistic son has to change schools which in turn will create huge anguish for him and we'll be 100s miles away from our family support network"..... "Stop being overdramatic, losing your job was your fault and I can't believe you haven't even invested in a Scandinavian ISA" says the man with no kids, no insight, no frame of reference and no fucking empathy. You are putting a lot of words into my mouth that are taken either out of context or I haven't said like that at all. So let's go back to the beginning. Too true. I’ve always relied on credit cards or loans for such things. I have good credit and this has never been a problem, it’s just of course far from a good foundation. My main fear these days is losing my job. I work in (and own a small piece of) a small tech business and as my standard of living has improved so has my fear of losing it all. A big enough competitor entering our arena would eat us for breakfast, and I wouldn’t find a similar job without moving my family. Going through that with nothing saved up is a horrifying prospect. What I understood here is the following: - somebody who works in tech with company shares - has improved his standard of living but has not put anything into savings - fears he wouldn't find a similar job without having to move - is horrified by the possibility of losing his job
To that I made a comment that basically stated that I find that not horrifying at all, albeit maybe formulated a bit more provocatively. Was that so wrong to warrant a follow up discussion over multiple pages?
No, it was not. He works in tech, one of the sectors with the most growth and most open jobs on the market. Also a sector with above-average pay. He lives on the limit of his income, so his standard of living must be quite high. A reduction of this standard would put him in the domain of regular people working in other sectors. He doesn't even fear not finding a similar job, only when not moving. Big deal. Many people won't be able to find a similar job in the whole fucking country, no matter where they would move to. He also lives in a country with several systems in place that would help him, such as minimum notice period, NIS, NHS, welfare payments, child support, etc.
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Post by dfunked on Apr 5, 2024 10:35:09 GMT
Oh. We're going back to this, then?
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Post by Psiloc on Apr 5, 2024 10:36:47 GMT
I was just explaining why I decided to start saving some money dude
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Post by LegendaryApe on Apr 5, 2024 10:38:21 GMT
Could a friendly mod step in and keep get the thread back to the topic.
God knows I post some shite in the wrong threads and I'm all for tangents , but what's going on is disruptive more than leading to discussion.
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Post by Day on Apr 5, 2024 10:43:42 GMT
Yeah, Chip’s ISA is at 5.10% right now, and also offering an easy access saver at 4.84%. Zopa was 5.08%. Thanks for the tip on the Chip one, we hadnt seen that one at the time. We went with a Zopa Smart ISA as we already had savings accounts with them. Also use Freetrade for our Stocks and Shares ISA, really easy to trade and they have alot of stocks available. I've got mostly Amazon, Adobe, Alphabet and Vangard S&P 500 which are doing ok, sold Netflix way to early and bought Warner Brothers... well, that didnt go so well as they tanked big time!
Edit, dont want to sound like we've got early retirement level shares though, only enough for a small used car... which actually may be needed soon as our 20 year old Mini is currently off the road waiting for a reconned power steering pump, ok.. probably sharing a bit too much now!
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Post by mrpon on Apr 5, 2024 11:05:53 GMT
zag is still salty we didn't like his utterly horrifying site plugins.
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Post by Reviewer on Apr 5, 2024 11:09:23 GMT
Finding the idea of losing your job even if there are loads available isn’t ridiculous. Some people make friends with colleagues and a new job might need the person to move, which is usually easy for someone single, but really problematic for a family. There’s also the hassle of getting the job, possibly hating the new one etc.
Again, don’t get why that seems ridiculous.
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Post by technoish on Apr 5, 2024 11:16:56 GMT
On stocks and shares - mine have done really well, over 20% in past year,. But I'm mainly just using the vanguard 80% life strategy fund (80% shares, 20% bonds). I'm not going down the stock picking route... I'm a fairly sophisticated person with some financial market experience (and economics training), but it just feels like pure speculation.
I also save some for my kids - my nan randomly without telling me started to transfer £50 a month for each kid into my bank account. I didn't even notice for ages. So I match that and put it my vanguard ISA account in a suitable retirement focused fund for each kid.
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Post by technoish on Apr 5, 2024 11:21:40 GMT
On kids - there are now also junior ISAs that you can set up. They can control the investments for from age 16, and then cash out from 18.
I decided against this option as kids can have different levels of maturity at 16 and 18, and also, for one of my kids with a US passport, it just complicates things too much. But my parents didn't have savings really at all, except for relying on a bit of inheritance to buy a house to retire into, and I want to do things differently. They were definitely NOT savings savvy at all.
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Post by Dougs on Apr 5, 2024 11:22:59 GMT
zagibu You need to drop it now. I agree with richardiox (and others), your position is not remotely the same and are displaying some serious lack of empathy or understanding. Drop it and move on, or you'll be on the naughty step.
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