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Post by bichii2 on Feb 14, 2023 8:57:08 GMT
I've been there and it's hard. I'm trying everything in my current one not to let it go the same way my other long term relationships went or how a lot of my friends long ones have become, where most times we all go out they end up bickering.
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Post by LegendaryApe on Feb 14, 2023 9:04:17 GMT
It's very tough. When I was younger I thought it would be easier but it really is a struggle
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Post by geefe on Feb 14, 2023 9:44:16 GMT
Relationship decline is a well documented thing. I can't find the source but a US president was named for a study. He was being shown around a farm with his wife, separately and they mentioned about how a bull is used to "spread his seed" around. The President remarked that someone should tell his wife.
The fundamental question is - are you happy? If not, are there parts of the relationship that make you happy and can you work on the other parts?
Coincidentally, I think this also plays into the increase in open marriage and relationships.
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Post by retro74 on Feb 14, 2023 10:03:34 GMT
Happy Valentines Day to all the love seekers of FG!
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Post by Honk If You're Horny? on Feb 14, 2023 15:38:16 GMT
I'm not doing anything.
Second date was good there's a LOT to like but when it comes down to it I just don't feel any urge to get jiggy.
So just going to let the day pass without any messages and hope that act pf cowardice let's the situation die rather than actually need a mature text exchange.
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Post by Jambowayoh on Feb 14, 2023 15:39:40 GMT
Narrator: He didn't like her Swedish Kebab.
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Post by RumMonkey on Feb 14, 2023 15:41:58 GMT
I imagine ghosting her is worse than just a quick message saying I'm not really feeling it.
You monster.
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Post by wunty on Feb 14, 2023 15:46:35 GMT
I just don't feel any urge to get jiggy. Just text her that. If she says anything in response, just start crying.
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Post by Honk If You're Horny? on Feb 14, 2023 15:51:18 GMT
I like to think the ghosting is a precursor to a not feelin' it text.
She might feel the same and get in first.
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Post by RumMonkey on Feb 14, 2023 15:54:36 GMT
A mutual ghosting seems fairest to all parties.
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Post by geefe on Feb 14, 2023 16:37:05 GMT
Ghosting is pretty shitty, tbh. I haven't ever done it and have always just said "geefe feels no need to add you to his list" or something.
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Post by Dougs on Feb 14, 2023 16:43:38 GMT
That she's not made contact suggests that mutual ghosting may well be what's on the cards.
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Post by RumMonkey on Feb 14, 2023 16:45:21 GMT
Ghosting is pretty shitty, tbh. I haven't ever done it and have always just said "geefe feels no need to add you to his list" or something.
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Post by ๐ on Feb 14, 2023 16:50:28 GMT
The list being the people buried under his patio.
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Post by cubby on Feb 14, 2023 17:04:56 GMT
"I'm afraid I won't be geefing you tonight"
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Post by Honk If You're Horny? on Feb 14, 2023 17:11:45 GMT
That she's not made contact suggests that mutual ghosting may well be what's on the cards. Yeah, we had a message exchange on sat but either way Valentine's day probably isn't the right time to send a no thanks message.
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Post by jono62 on Feb 14, 2023 17:16:57 GMT
Date: 'How's your food?'
Geefe: 'I'm about halfway through and it is bland. Everyone says The Savoy is the best place they have every been, but McDonalds is superior. I also fell asleep when you were talking. I am told I didn't miss much.'
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Post by jono62 on Feb 14, 2023 17:17:48 GMT
That she's not made contact suggests that mutual ghosting may well be what's on the cards. Yeah, we had a message exchange on sat but either way Valentine's day probably isn't the right time to send a no thanks message. Roses are red Violets are blue After this message I am ghosting you.
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Post by LegendaryApe on Feb 14, 2023 17:22:30 GMT
Roses are red, Violets are blue, When I think about us boning My winky goes "eeeeeeeeew".
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Post by geefe on Feb 14, 2023 17:50:08 GMT
The list being the people buried under his patio. Fuck off. That was relaid for entirely legit reasons.
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Post by EMarkM on Feb 14, 2023 17:50:09 GMT
Roses are red Violets are blue Love is eternal But I AM GEEFE
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Post by Lizard on Feb 14, 2023 17:55:47 GMT
Surely Geefe just sends them a 6/10 rating
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Post by LegendaryApe on Feb 14, 2023 18:06:29 GMT
Romance is now officially dead in my household as well.
I'd like to say it had a long, fulfilling life but unfortunately it's existence was cut short prematurely.
Rest easy now, romance, you have been called back to our lord to be temporarily gifted to two teenagers, drunk off their heads on Tesco own-brand cider, rolling about under the cover of the pretend pirate ship in their local playground.
Crows, watching on from a nearby fence, will cheer them on with encouraging caws.
Crows: the true symbols of St Valentine's day.
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Post by geefe on Feb 14, 2023 18:09:50 GMT
Surely Geefe just sends them a 6/10 rating Tbf there are times when I think it's been quantity over quality.
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Post by Jambowayoh on Feb 14, 2023 19:32:41 GMT
Geefe only has so many fingers to please his harem.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2023 19:49:35 GMT
Fuck me the cringe is strong in here. Like a cross between Jay off the Inbetweeners and the John Major Spitting Image puppet.
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Post by cubby on Feb 14, 2023 19:53:18 GMT
That's not cringe you're smelling.
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Post by Jambowayoh on Feb 14, 2023 20:05:03 GMT
That's M&S Cringe.
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Post by Onny on Feb 14, 2023 20:44:01 GMT
Ghosting is pretty shitty, tbh. I haven't ever done it and have always just said "geefe feels no need to add you to his list" or something. โMadam, while the fingerblasting and subsequent digit sniffing has been pleasant, I do not believe there to be a future betwixt us. Good day.โ
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Post by geefe on Feb 14, 2023 21:56:43 GMT
If I ever actually meet you I will 100% put that on a t-shirt
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