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Post by cubby on May 28, 2023 8:30:12 GMT
Your friend did it but is wise enough not to admit it to you. She knows if she did eventually 3 will know about it.
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Post by dfunked on May 28, 2023 8:30:25 GMT
Bloody hell, that sounds like an awful position to be in. Really does sound like it's related to #1, but fuck all you can do about that and I'm guessing the police don't care, so it's just going to keep stewing with #3 and #4.
I'd try to have a quiet word with #3 and #4 and hope you can convince them that you're just an innocent stuck in the middle of it.
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Post by Dougs on May 28, 2023 8:35:21 GMT
I like the idea of a letter. It's less confrontational and allows you to set it all out clearly, especially the impact on you. Send them all the same note and say you've copied to everyone. If they still carry on being dicks, move!
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Post by LFace on May 28, 2023 8:48:07 GMT
I'll try and have a word with 4 at some point. I work from home and they are retired so always home so a good chance to bump into them outside whilst 3 are both at work. Think they're on holiday at the moment though as not seen them in days so it might have to wait a bit - lucky buggers have a holiday home they stay at for a month or so at a time occasionally.
If I find out 1 had anything to do with it I'll never talk to my friend again for putting me in this situation. They can put their own bins out as well - that'll show em!
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Post by Bongo Heracles on May 28, 2023 9:10:52 GMT
How do they know it’s an old brand of paint stripper? Did they send it to the lab for analysis?
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Post by Vortex on May 28, 2023 9:14:22 GMT
What kind of weirdos move in next to their parents ffs?
House 3 & 4 sound like twats.
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Post by LFace on May 28, 2023 9:25:01 GMT
How do they know it’s an old brand of paint stripper? Did they send it to the lab for analysis? Hearsay from 3 so take with a pinch of salt. When they took it to garage or wherever they went with it to be sorted, the people there recognised it as being the old style that isn't sold anymore. Presumably there's a better form of chemical to strip paint and has changed over years. Shrug.
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Post by Fake_Blood on May 28, 2023 12:27:14 GMT
Old guy from #1 did it. Talk to #4 , reiterate that #1 overheard your conversation where the accusations towards #1 were made, you didn’t tell them. Ask them to stop the parking shenanigans.
And to be clear, fuck not wanting a car parked in front of your house because an ambulance might need to come, they’ll park in the middle of the street if need be.
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Post by LFace on May 28, 2023 12:34:19 GMT
Old guy from #1 did it. Talk to #4 , reiterate that #1 overheard your conversation where the accusations towards #1 were made, you didn’t tell them. Ask them to stop the parking shenanigans. And to be clear, fuck not wanting a car parked in front of your house because an ambulance might need to come, they’ll park in the middle of the street if need be. Old guy from 1 is bed ridden for life unable to walk so he definitely didn't do it. I fully agree that moaning about leaving room for a potential ambulance is stupid. They're just being petty about wanting anyone outside their house. If I can't get outside mine I park outside theirs. Never been moaned at.
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Post by Lizard on May 28, 2023 19:15:36 GMT
Bulldoze 1, 3 and 4. Problem solved and now you have a bigger garden.
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Post by Danno on May 28, 2023 19:49:06 GMT
Bulldoze 1, 3 and 4. Problem solved and now you have a bigger garden. And a large patio...
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Post by Vortex on May 28, 2023 20:12:33 GMT
Ah, the wunty protocol
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Post by Ulythium on May 28, 2023 20:20:10 GMT
Old guy from 1 is bed ridden for life unable to walk so he definitely didn't do it.
Plot twist: old guy from 1 is Keyser Söze. (Either that, or his wife did it.)
Definitely think it's worth trying to have a quiet word, although I do understand the "why should I?" sentiment - while the onus shouldn't be on you, it'll be better for your mental well-being to get this sorted ASAP. Stuff like this tends to fester when left unresolved!
Best of luck with it, anyhow.
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Post by knighty on May 28, 2023 20:42:41 GMT
I must admit I do adhere to the old ‘a space is a space, unless it’s your driveway’rule though.
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Post by X201 on May 28, 2023 21:24:43 GMT
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Post by LegendaryApe on Jun 29, 2023 5:50:46 GMT
For future use by the fine folks of this thread
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Post by cubby on Jun 29, 2023 7:04:13 GMT
Step 5: they check their ring doorbell and see you with a silly grin holding a frozen disc of piss
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Post by mrpon on Jun 29, 2023 8:51:05 GMT
You mean a cold plate of piss dripping all over their hands.
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Post by mikeck on Jul 12, 2023 19:06:03 GMT
I don't really want to end our neighbours, but they've done something today that's fucked me off.
Context; we live in a development and we're an end terrace on a small road and we're right at the end, we're the only house with a drive and all other houses have to park their car outside their neighbours house. So directly outside the house we have a fairly wide road and a car space opposite us with a large wall running down the length of the road.
Due to the layout of the street there are three houses that are completely terraced, with no side access to their house and only a garage to store their bins. But our neighbours have always left their bins by their parking space against the wall (i.e. opposite our house).
Today they've put outside one of those metal bin stores by the side of their parking space in the 'dead space' between the space and the corner of the two walls that connect. Only problem is they've stuffed it full of their bikes and outdoor crap and left the fucking bins outside of the bin store. So we now have a fucking metal box, and two large black bins opposite our house.
I don't want to be unreasonable about this, but they're being fucking obnoxious right? I might not have had too much of an issue if they're given us a heads-up, but they've just done it, so I either have to say something (and we're on good terms, so it could be awkward) and treat it like a joke, actually be honest and say it's not great, or deal with it. All of which are going to cause me some level of anxiety. Sigh...just wanted to vent. Talk me down if I'm being dramatic too, I get it, it's a first world problem.
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Post by Dougs on Jul 12, 2023 19:16:34 GMT
Is it on their land? Can't quite picture what you mean
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Post by LegendaryApe on Jul 12, 2023 19:17:53 GMT
Also slightly confused as to the crime.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2023 19:19:25 GMT
Need a picture of the thing you're describing to see whether they're the cunt or you're.
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Post by mikeck on Jul 12, 2023 19:25:19 GMT
It's hard to describe - directly outside of our houses (we all face a large wall, which backs onto the next street's gardens) is an access road to our houses and then parking spaces between road and the seperating wall. Can't fucking embed it - does this link work: imgur.com/a/s4cissPSo I guess it's nobody's land...it's the space where the two walls join - but faces our house and is only about 4 metres from our house. Maybe I'm just annoyed as had a hard week at work so far and being cuntish and need to wind my neck in.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2023 19:35:58 GMT
Yeah... can't see the issue there. Might be time for a glass of wine and unwind, then tomorrow realise its nothing.
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Post by LegendaryApe on Jul 12, 2023 19:37:59 GMT
I mean...you could slide a disc of piss into that easy
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Post by mikeck on Jul 12, 2023 19:38:13 GMT
Ha fair enough Rum There are rules in our development for erecting things outside of houses which is why I got annoyed as nobody else can do something like this as this is the only bit of 'dead' space in the entire road. I'm sure I'll be more reasonable when not running on fumes.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2023 19:43:03 GMT
As long as they're being respectful and not excessively loud when using it, there's no harm
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Post by JuniorFE on Jul 12, 2023 19:43:43 GMT
Doesn't seem like the bins are blocking anything far as I can tell (your front door, parking space, road etc), so I don't really see anything to be upset about either tbh, in the pic at least Also lol @imgur throwing a "this picture may contain erotic or adult imagery" warning for the pic Boy, those garbage bins sure get my motor running!
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Post by LegendaryApe on Jul 12, 2023 19:45:54 GMT
It's not the bin itself, it's the tantalizing thought of what's inside..
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Post by wunty on Jul 12, 2023 19:47:14 GMT
Burn it down
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