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Post by Bill in the rain on Dec 15, 2023 12:57:21 GMT
It's not really a UK politics thing, but it feels like the only way to limit that kind of social media usage by kids would be to have limits built into Android and iOS themselves. I think they do both have limiting solutions, but I don't know how effective they are, or even how often parents turn them on. My eldest is 13 and she's likely to get her first smartphone next week, so I'm looking into the android Family Link thing, but haven't actually used it. Though it doesn't help that all the tech companies basically make age 13 the cut-off point. Below 13 - not supposed to be using so they bury their heads in the sand, over 13 - free reign. So I got an email from Google a few weeks back saying that her kids account has now basically become self-managed, and she can turn off the parental controls whenever she wants. It feels like there should be a mandatory 13-18 range where they're allowed to offer services, but with strict limits. But even then, it seems like the only real way to limit it would be through Android/iOS limits that are enforced on by default. Not that I trust the government to attempt anything remotely sensible.
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Post by Jambowayoh on Dec 15, 2023 13:03:28 GMT
Does anyone know why the arbitrary age of 13 was chosen? I find it absolutely baffling and wonder if any of the people in tech have interacted a 13yr old at all.
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Post by Reviewer on Dec 15, 2023 13:12:06 GMT
I’m sure some have interacted with 13 year olds, just not been caught.
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Post by kal on Dec 15, 2023 13:27:59 GMT
It’s more or less the average age for puberty so kinda makes sense.
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Post by anthonyuk on Dec 15, 2023 13:39:57 GMT
Don't have kids of my own, but a good friend has two teenage boys and up until their mid teens managed to limit their access to social media. One being 15 now, he's now let him have access to Instagram and tiktok confident he's old enough and wise enough.
Though only a few months in during conversation about the impacts of social media, his son piped up with "Andrew Tate, I don't always agree with him, but he usually has a good point on most things".. "his videos are always appearing on my feed" to horrified looks all round.
When our TV content is so carful with what it shows and when, it does seem insane that such toxic content can be force fed to kids 24/4 in the hunt for screen time.
As already mentioned, one of the main issues for parents seems to be effectively distancing their children from other friendship groups, making them the odd one out.
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Post by Reviewer on Dec 15, 2023 14:17:41 GMT
As damaging as a lot of the content is for kids, a lot of it is for adults too.
In think overall social media and the likes of TikTok are far more damaging than they are good. Banning them all isn’t ever going to happen but it would be better if it was.
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Post by Reviewer on Dec 15, 2023 14:22:13 GMT
When our TV content is so carful with what it shows and when, it does seem insane that such toxic content can be force fed to kids 24/4 in the hunt for screen time. At least they get 3 days a week off.
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Post by kal on Dec 15, 2023 14:24:10 GMT
As damaging as a lot of the content is for kids, a lot of it is for adults too. In think overall social media and the likes of TikTok are far more damaging than they are good. Banning them all isn’t ever going to happen but it would be better if it was. I find this a very reactionary and also slightly privileged point of view. Social media has done an extraordinary amount of good especially for marginalised groups that would normally struggle to find communities, such as gay people in the Middle East. Events like the Arab Spring could never have happened without social media. And let let’s not forget this nice little corner of social media that we’re having this very conversation on. It’s impossibly to quantify things like “damage” but really it’s important to be specific about which mechanics on which platforms are dangerous and why. Otherwise it’s no different to ranting about how the printing press is the devil’s work.
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Post by Whizzo on Dec 15, 2023 14:26:40 GMT
Considering how fucking toothless Ofcom is these days when it comes to channels like GB News I have zero expectation of them getting more responsibility handed to them with online issues via the OSA.
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Post by Reviewer on Dec 15, 2023 14:38:09 GMT
As damaging as a lot of the content is for kids, a lot of it is for adults too. In think overall social media and the likes of TikTok are far more damaging than they are good. Banning them all isn’t ever going to happen but it would be better if it was. I find this a very reactionary and also slightly privileged point of view. Social media has done an extraordinary amount of good especially for marginalised groups that would normally struggle to find communities, such as gay people in the Middle East. Events like the Arab Spring could never have happened without social media. And let let’s not forget this nice little corner of social media that we’re having this very conversation on. It’s impossibly to quantify things like “damage” but really it’s important to be specific about which mechanics on which platforms are dangerous and why. Otherwise it’s no different to ranting about how the printing press is the devil’s work. There’s no agreement amongst experts that social media was a huge driver of a lot of those things, especially as some countries involved barely have the internet. The Arab Spring led to the Arab Winter which has been awful for many of the countries involved, so arguably wasn’t actually a positive. Better controls and censorship could help but still, that’s not going to happen and certainly not in a responsible/idealised way. I accept the platforms are most likely to just do what they want with no real controls, and even if they did have effective controls, people use them and a lot of them are dicks.
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Post by kal on Dec 15, 2023 14:42:36 GMT
No form of media is intrinsically good or bad. Throughout history every single new form of media has been demonised based on the potential negative side (usually in the form of “won’t someone think of the children” type rhetoric) but in time that thinking always ends up looking reductive and regressive. Social media scaremongering will be the same.
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Post by Reviewer on Dec 15, 2023 14:47:48 GMT
None of those media used methods to analyse and deliberately target that part of human nature that seeks out the controversial and shocking. It’s not the same as anything before.
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Post by kal on Dec 15, 2023 14:54:10 GMT
Almost identical sentiments were said about TV and how it was completely different to anything because it beamed its message directly into your brain, preying on the susceptible and impressionable.
Blanket scaremongering doesn’t help anyone.
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Post by geefe on Dec 15, 2023 15:03:55 GMT
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Post by Chopsen on Dec 15, 2023 15:17:04 GMT
The assesment of harmful effects of social media use is an evolving field. What sets it apart from most other forms of media is how it highjacks the same chemical pathway in our brains as gambling or addictive drugs do. The impact of, or even the definition of what constitutes, harmful social media use is an ongoing matter of investigation at an early stage. A quick Google found this for example from at year: www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9707397/Indicating that there were things in the past that were subject to moral panics at their introduction doesn't mean that any new thing will inevitably follow the same trend, of course. So it's a weak argument to use. But sure, we probably are at a stage of social media's incorporation in to social norms that makes that a possible outcome. And even if society does adapt and incorporate something as part of a new normal, it doesn't mean there aren't harms associated with them. It's just that we've adopted a tolerance of them or put in place regulation and safeguards to protect against them. I'm sure there were people banging on about the risks of cars when they were introduced. We've adopted them as a normal part of life, but we've implemented a shit load of legislation and safety procedures in that time as well to mitigate the risks
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Post by kal on Dec 15, 2023 15:27:41 GMT
Certain elements and mechanics of some social media have a similar effect to gambling and drugs, but not “it” as an entity.
Again it’s the blanket statements that I’m saying are unhelpful here. Social media is vast and takes many many forms, and is evolving at a rapid rate. There’s an important conversation to be had about which aspects and mechanics are potentially harmful for sure, but equally there’s some extremely positive aspects and if you choose to do so, you can also do a quick Google for ways that social media is good for mental health, or education, or marginalised communities etc.
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Post by JonFE on Dec 15, 2023 15:32:12 GMT
For all the good social media have done, IMHO, there's also an equal amount of evil doing, with people having a platform to spew bile, racist or hateful comments, bully others, instill unrealistic or even criminal standards on vulnerable people on a far greater scale than television could ever do. I'd argue that the village idiots, once locally contained individuals, can now reach like-minded people across the globe and validate themselves, expand their idiotic ideas, convince willing bystanders to follow them etc.
For recent examples just see the rise of right-wing ideologies and leaders across the western world, the anti-vaxx movement during the pandemic, the various culture "wars" etc.
I understand it's not easy to quantify or nice to generalize, but frankly I wouldn't shed a tear if social media disappeared overnight.
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Post by kal on Dec 15, 2023 15:47:18 GMT
It’s not like there aren’t some pretty notable examples of right-wing ideologies having significant impact on the world long before the invention of social media. Mein Kampf is a nasty piece of work but I’m not sure even the existence of the Holocaust justifies saying the world would have been better off without the printing press.
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Post by anthonyuk on Dec 15, 2023 16:05:56 GMT
Certain elements and mechanics of some social media have a similar effect to gambling and drugs, but not “it” as an entity. Again it’s the blanket statements that I’m saying are unhelpful here. Social media is vast and takes many many forms, and is evolving at a rapid rate. There’s an important conversation to be had about which aspects and mechanics are potentially harmful for sure, but equally there’s some extremely positive aspects and if you choose to do so, you can also do a quick Google for ways that social media is good for mental health, or education, or marginalised communities etc. I think the original point was more certain aspects of social media and how it impacts kids. I don't think social media is the devil, it's definitely done alot of good in bringing a huge proportion of the world within touching distance. For that alone it's been revolutionary in making the world feel more as one whole. But let's not pretend the social good was the original goal for Facebook or Twitter. Now more than ever they aggressively want our screen time, with little to no internal censorship or concern to what effect the content they host has on people. In the case of Instagram, they've actually tried to suppress internal research showing the negative impacts on younger children. So in the case of Tate, it's somehow become the norm that a physically abusive misogynist, who's made his money through deals with the mafia and convincing young girls to work on his webcam business can preach to everyone else's kids all hours and become a hero for young boys. The world is all the better for being so connected, but kids shouldn't be anywhere near social media or in the very least the feature set and content should be heavily restricted in my opinion.
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Post by JonFE on Dec 15, 2023 16:09:06 GMT
kal Agreed, however since WWII, right-wing fanatics would choose to be hidden from the public eye, meet up locally in small numbers, fearful of ridicule, judgement or even jail time. Nowadays, they unapologetically (is that a word?) arrange meet-ups in each other's countries, parades and/or riots through the streets, anti-whatever marches etc. and social media kind of helps them with that. Same can happen with other fanatics also, I'm not isolating right-wing nutters on this. Also, if you don't want Mein Kampf prints spreading you try to forbid publishing companies to print it anymore (so only existing copies can be passed around minimizing harm), you don't stop all printing; when it comes to social media and the liberties people take on them for the same nastiness, how can you stop it?
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Post by kal on Dec 15, 2023 16:24:03 GMT
anthonyuk Jack Dorsey has actually been very candid about his original intent for Twitter and his regret about what it eventually became, and how he hopes to rectify it through Bluesky, which is currently a little utopia in the world of nasty social media experiences. As for Facebook it didn’t invent social media. It was just a rip off of amihotornot that turned into something else. We have a tendency when talking about social media to use it as a shorthand for Facebook, Twitter, IG etc but again, it is vast and takes many forms. I am in several Slack groups with other people who do my job all around the world and the community is immeasurably positive and useful. I can only begin to imagine how many other niche forms of it are out there that provide life changing benefits for all sorts of people. I do think again it is somewhat privileged to say the world is better off without it when there are probably millions of people who are connected in life-changing ways by it. I’m just saying the same thing over and over but there’s nothing helpful in generalising about the good or the bad.
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Post by kal on Dec 15, 2023 16:34:54 GMT
kal Agreed, however since WWII, right-wing fanatics would choose to be hidden from the public eye, meet up locally in small numbers, fearful of ridicule, judgement or even jail time. Nowadays, they unapologetically (is that a word?) arrange meet-ups in each other's countries, parades and/or riots through the streets, anti-whatever marches etc. and social media kind of helps them with that. Same can happen with other fanatics also, I'm not isolating right-wing nutters on this. Also, if you don't want Mein Kampf prints spreading you try to forbid publishing companies to print it anymore (so only existing copies can be passed around minimizing harm), you don't stop all printing; when it comes to social media and the liberties people take on them for the same nastiness, how can you stop it? I must have dreamt all the National Front and BNP activity in London when I was growing up then if all the racists were in hiding. Strange because I remember it being quite a big thing at the time.
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Post by JonFE on Dec 15, 2023 17:21:22 GMT
Ok, I stand corrected, there's absolutely no evidence that social media have helped making an existing situation worse.
Apologies for any inconvenience caused.
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Post by technoish on Dec 15, 2023 17:27:05 GMT
I'm also banning YouTube kids stuff. I understand they experiment with stuff like cocomelon by watching kids watch the shows, with distractions on the side. Where the programme doesn't hold their attention over the distraction, they edit the programme.
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Post by kal on Dec 15, 2023 17:31:50 GMT
Ok, I stand corrected, there's absolutely no evidence that social media have helped making an existing situation worse. Apologies for any inconvenience caused. Not to be a dick about it but I didn’t see you present any evidence, just some very flawed received wisdom. I mean really, the idea that all the far right went into hiding since WW2 and have only resurged since the invention of social media is blatantly untrue. In fact the far right rallies are still not on the same scale as those that happened in the 70s and 80s, long before social media came along. Which is really my point. There is a correlation between the current surge of extremism and social media, but has causation been proven? Maybe social media is actually helping suppress it by shining more light? Maybe it would be even worse without it? Again it’s an easy (and sorry but somewhat lazy) link but it’s classic demonisation of the media, which is actually a symptom of much more complex causes. IMO anyway…
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Post by mothercruncher on Dec 15, 2023 17:32:33 GMT
Yeah, definitely a very fine line between not making them a tall poppy because they’re not included, and exposing them to all the manipulative social crap these apps drip with. Daughter at 12 has limited access but is on most stuff except TikTok, but have had her on WhatsApp for a few years so she could be in family chats etc. Even just that basic chat client has seen numerous class bullying incidents over the past few years.
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Post by elstoof on Dec 15, 2023 18:04:34 GMT
Probably for the best that far right extremists etc are discussing online where it’s traceable, rather than in secret down the legion
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Post by X201 on Dec 15, 2023 18:08:07 GMT
Piers Morgan: I never hacked a phone or told anyone to hack a phone.
That’s not the question Piers. The question you have never answered is, did you know that phone hacking was happening?
It’s a piss-poor editor that doesn’t enquire how their journalists are getting massive scoop after massive scoop.
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Post by JonFE on Dec 15, 2023 18:26:09 GMT
Ok, I stand corrected, there's absolutely no evidence that social media have helped making an existing situation worse. Apologies for any inconvenience caused. Not to be a dick about it but I didn’t see you present any evidence, just some very flawed received wisdom. I mean really, the idea that all the far right went into hiding since WW2 and have only resurged since the invention of social media is blatantly untrue. In fact the far right rallies are still not on the same scale as those that happened in the 70s and 80s, long before social media came along. Which is really my point. There is a correlation between the current surge of extremism and social media, but has causation been proven? Maybe social media is actually helping suppress it by shining more light? Maybe it would be even worse without it? Again it’s an easy (and sorry but somewhat lazy) link but it’s classic demonisation of the media, which is actually a symptom of much more complex causes. IMO anyway… I really don't want to argue with anyone, especially you, because it would seem like we are disagreeing and that's not my intention at all. Also, since English is not my mother language, there's a chance I'm not articulating my thoughts correctly.
I don't attribute the surge of extremism solely to social media, there are many causes I agree. All I'm saying is that I believe social media, as they currently are used (and sometimes abused) by people, are making us worse. I really don't have to prove it, it's just a hunch feeling, an observation and I think I'm entitled to it.
For example, I see people (sometimes young ones) beating other people up and posting that to TikTok, taking pride in their "achievement", getting "street credit", how's that helping anyone? Also, young children aspiring to be "youtubers" and "influencers" that give up any kind of education, why? Sure, it may be the symptom, not the cause, but, for me at least, it's also a way that encourages such behavior...
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Post by kal on Dec 15, 2023 18:39:36 GMT
JonFE it’s all good and of course you’re entitled to your opinion. It’s all theory anyway, mine and yours.
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